|Signs You Cannot Handle Relationship|
Dating can be a lot of fun. Maybe too much fun and it's interfering with other aspects of your life. Read about 5 signs you cannot handle a relationship and know when to let go.
1. You feel sad when you’re not with this person
2. You cannot stop thinking about the person for more than 5 minutes
3. Your life revolves around pleasing this person
4. You won’t involve parents in the relationship
5. In-fighting is a normal occurrence in your relationship
You cannot handle a relationship?
You’re scared of commitment
No matter how much you want a relationship, you’re scared to commit. You might be afraid of losing the freedom that comes with dating. You might think that commitment is too much and you’re not ready for it.
But commitment isn’t the end of the world. Read more about the dangers of commitment phobia.
You don’t want to settle.
Dating is a way to find someone who’s right for you. You can spend a few weeks dating before deciding if you’re ready to move on to the next person. You can enjoy the process without having to commit. But you’re not satisfied with the way things are. You want to have someone you can count on, someone you can spend time with, someone who makes you happy. You want to be able to make promises and keep them. You want to know you can count on someone else.
You’re scared to let go
There are times when you’re not sure what you want. You might want to see what the future holds, but you’re not sure if you want to be in a relationship or not. You might want to keep your options open, but you’re afraid of letting someone in.
You might want to keep things casual, but you’re afraid of losing yourself.
You can’t handle the drama of being single
There are a lot of people who are willing to settle. They’re willing to settle on someone who doesn’t make them happy, or who doesn’t make them feel good.
You’re afraid of being alone.
You might be afraid of being alone. You might be afraid of going through life without someone who’s willing to go out with you. You might be afraid of being alone, and it’s making you depressed. You might feel like you have no one to talk to and no one to spend time with. You might feel like you’re not good enough.
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